Umm...tgk title..I'll bet people will start wondering...apa yg I tak faham kan??Banyak actually...but if I want to write it down..perhaps..a week pun still not enough okay...hee~ (maaf lah...gua lumpi okay...mmg bab2 understanding ni gua lemah...)
Nak jadi kan cerita...as usual lah..on saturday night..what else to do...mama & seangkatannya mcm biasalah....cerekarama kt TV3 tu mmg confirm wajib tgk laa.....The title for today's drama would be 'Nur di jiwa Harina'. Okay..I admit..title mmg gempak...memang menusuk kalbu abis laaa....
Tetapi.....macam biasa...drama melayu always typical...that's why..I do have this difficulty in accepting their message...huhu!!But this time...yes...this drama is quite good okay!!You know why....sebab drama melayu kali ni show how narrow minded some malay people are..hehe!!No offends okay...saya pun melayu juga...but sometimes...sorry to say...we tend to be not so open.
Okay...I do get it...if someone is too open minded pun tak elok jugak...but at least keep your mind open..and do think rationally...not just simply see things...or judge things through our eyes..because there is always more beneath it.
Err...before I do melalut more..it is better for me to cerita what today's drama is all about hehe!! Okay..today's drama is about a 15 years old girl named Harina who live in a so called village with her mum. It happen that her mum remarry again with a jerk who actually have a jerk son. Nak jadi kan cerita....her mum's husband is happen to be such a jackass. It goes the same for his son as both of them like to torture her by beating her and asking her to do lots of things for them. What makes me sakit hati is...I just don't understand...why sometimes women tend to be so stupid and so selfish?? In this case...seriously..I hate Harina 's mum...you know why?? SEbab she is so stupid by allowing all this things happen in front of her and do nothing about it except just to keep her faith on her husband's hand. Can you see how stupid she is??Bayangkan lah....her husband boleh marah2 her daughter for no reasons and she actually listen to her husband??Serius..I just can't believe such a woman do exist nowadays....
I do understand...as a wife we have to patuh our husband but in our religion, it doesn't state that a husband have the right to do bad things right??Perkara yg salah ttp salah...so as a human being don't u think we should stand up against it??Bila fikir2 balik... I do think, the reason why her mum ikut jer ckp her jerk husband is because she doesn't want to end up being alone..sebab tu..she willing to accept all her husband's mistake...or perhaps..when you love someone so much...kita tak nampak pun salah orang tu..betul tak??hehe!!
Okay....yang memang I just can't accept is that..Harina's mum actually ask her not to go to school so that she could help her jual karipap...adoiii...if you want to have a better life...don't you think you should let your kid go to school..boleh pulaks...ask ur daughter to ponteng..gila apa??if my mum...jgn arap la wehh....even demam sket2 pun kena pi sekolah ok....
But if nak salah kan her mum100% also is not fair la...sebab..things happen sebab they are not family yg senang..I mean not like me yg membesar without no financial problems..so perhaps..I don't really understand it..but in my opinion....no matter how hard life is...satu jer..don't ever stop learning..sebab..education is the only way to bring your family out of misery...and while I'm watching this drama...it makes me realise that sometimes we do have to sacrifice things that we want most to make sure our loved ones is in a good hand. In this case I guess Harina's mum have to sacrifice lah...I mean..apa guna ada husband yg menyusahkan??we need husband to protect us not the other way around okay...Like my nenek said, " If nenek la jadi pompuan ni..baik aku tak yah ada laki...ada laki pun perangai mcm sial ..baik aku besarkan anak aku sorang2..."===> okay..this nenek's talking...see..even my nenek pun pandai!!hehe!! In this case....Harina also have to change...sebab..she seems to accepting things as a fate...sedangkan...fate itu memang sudah tertulis..but sebagai manusia..our job is to change our fate by working hard to be somebody not just accepting things as they are...itu namanya berserah..if berserah..memang makin parah la kan....
So...moral of the story is...don't ever let our fate gets in a way with our hopes & dreams...If we have one..we should go and pursue it not just sitting around and do nothing about it...
By the way...I am not married yet..so I don't really know how it felt to have a husband and perhaps..I have no idea....how lonely it is not to have one..but I do know one thing, seorang suami yang baik tak akan menyakiti seorang isteri dan anak2 nya(even anak tiri/adopted) dari segi physically or mentally...jadi better be lonely dari having a husband yg akan menyakit kan hati/mental..betul tak??hehe!!~
p/s: btw...it is just a thought from me..since I hate to see how weak most women are....sedih okay...T_T
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