Friday, January 6, 2012

What's the Big Fuss

Okay this past few days, Malaysia have been famously talking about Amalina, our former SPM brilliant student. Well, senang cerita satu Malaysia mengalami serangan jantung knowing that their beloved brilliant kiddo sudah berubah. She is no longer this sweet young innocent girl yg wearing hijab. Unfortunately she has turn into this beautiful, vivacious and sexy kind a girl. Nak salah kan siapa??Well, kindly blame facebook, if it is not because of facebook mesti gambar dia tidak akan leak right??LOL~

My personal view on regards of this matter is.....

Dear Manusia in Malaysia, Kindly mind your own business people!!

It is not a big deal people. Manusia itu berubah. Perhaps she use to be that sweet innocent girl but come on la..that was like years ago when she was 17 years old. She don’t even know the world. And now, she is a grown up woman and I believe she knows all the consequences on all her actions. So, what’s the big fuss on her changes??

Am not going to touch on the religion part. Am not that good on giving people advises on regards religion pun. But, as a muslim myself I know…we can’t simply behave and wear that kind of clothes because it is not only inappropriate but it is also a sin in our religion. Saya faham dan Alhamdulillah saya pun sudah mula berhijrah.

However, please dear people…stop all this nonsense and don’t simply judge her without knowing her side of story. Tak pasal-pasal, Amalina has to buat a press statement via skype just to let all the Malaysian knows that she is not what other people thought she is. Poor her…Years ago, there have been a rumored saying that she has been a drop out and now she has been labelized sebagai seorang gadis yg hanya pandai bersosial. Ya, welcome to Malaysia where people love to be busy body. Malaysia people love to be over prihatin when it comes to their beloved citizen. I think we better be prihatin to other national issues instead of Amalina kot since SHE IS NOT A NATIONAL ISSUE. By wearing a legging does nothing to our economy kot. Takdenya Ringgit Malaysia turun or naik because of her.

I think what’s matter the most is that she is not simply wasting all the scholarship given to her. Yelah knowing that she is doing well in her studies and she is also one of the top students, I guess we should be proud of her. Maybe we should just put it this way, as long as she does well and excel in her studies, as an outsider we should just keep on supporting her. Anything on her behavior, appearance and etc…we should let her decide for herself. She is a big girl and she has a supportive mother whom I guaranteed will always be there for her. I guess, her mother is qualified enough to give her all the advises she needs and not from us yang don’t even have a clue on her.

Enough lah with all this ridiculous stories about her. And stop making any speculation. I guess moral of the story is, sesiapa yg rasa diri mereka teramat famous dan selalu di stalk maybe you should just deactivate your Facebook account before someone hack it and post all the pictures about you on the internet. Manusia ini kadangkala agak kejam, they prefer to sabotage other people life for their own benefits. Takpela…what goes around comes around. Itu janji tuhan. Sekarang kita di atas, esok lusa siapa yg tahu??

I do think to those yg have opinions on regards this matter, careful with your words. Don’t simply thrash her. She still young and she needs guidance. We were once young like her, I guess we should understand better. I think she is rational enough to hear other people opinions on her behavior. Remember, she has a family..fikirkan perasaan family dia terlebih dahulu and think what if the same thing happen to you and your family??

Sama-sama lah kita berfikir dan mengambil iktibar ya, saya ni pun selalu khilaf. Why don’t we look at ourself first before pointing fingers at other people….Jaga dulu periuk sendiri before nak sibuk jaga periuk orang ya..

Ok Peace.

4 comments:

fuad ansari said...

sekarang baru kita perasan besarnya impak fb dalam kehidupan kita..

jangan silap guna, buruk jadinya..

yup, kita doakan yg terbaik utk dia..

manusia susah berubah dengan cacian..

tapi manusia mudah berubah dengan hikmah dan kesabaran..

(",)..

namasayatihah said...

agree fuad..sbb itu sy krg gemar bersosial di fb..hee~

insyaallah..enough bad talks on her better we pray utk kebaikan..;)

Unknown said...

emm,saya dulu ad efb pastu ttp skjp ..skrg open balik semata-mata mem games je...hahaha,aduhai!

xper2 bljr dri kesilapan..xrugi pun mengakui kekhilafan diri..

namasayatihah said...

ok la tuh, bg sy..fb is good cuma rmi manusia menyalahgunakan..sume social networks ade pro's n con's..;)

sy jarang open fb, i keep my account for the sake of rmi sgt kwn2 lame yg sy masih nk keep in touch..;D

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