Since I've start working..nothing else yg selalu dok difikir2 kan..pasal apa??pasal kahwin..dan kahwin..dan kahwin...kenapa nak sgt kahwin eh??Ummm..I've always ask myself..what is so special about being married??dulu my answer is 'supaya ada org boleh jaga,boleh support kita,can always be there for us,lagi boleh sayang kita sampai mati'...I do think it is what all of us want right??siapa tak nak kan??everyone craving for happy ending..craving for happiness..kalau boleh..kita semua takmo pun ada sebarang cacat cela in perkahwinan kan..me too always think..like,'Oo..ok..once dah kahwin,things going to be okay..nothing to worry cuz you r goin to be happily ever after' Is it???
Seriously.....'BULLSHIT OK'!!!hahahaha...there are no such thing as happily ever after...tolong lah...this is reality of life ok..life is indeed colourful..tapi warna die tak selalu putih/pink/blue...kadang2 kaler hitam itu datang jugak..kan2??
Nowadays pun if asking kwn2 ku semua pun dah xsabar2 nak kahwin..btl tak??I know me too..but different wif korg..you girls do have calon kan while me??Yaa..I use to have one..but now..let faith tentukan segalanya..saya berserah..dan redha~hehe!!~
When it comes to kahwin..semua pun ckp..'Ooo..nak kahwin..but duet still xcukup..mcm2 nk beli..nk wat majlis lg..things da mhl skrg and so on..and on...' Ya...saya setuju..things are indeed expensive nowadays..bukan sng nk kahwin..it doesn't mean today u ckp nk kahwin and the next day u can get married right??But in my opinion..when it comes to kahwin..money/things/stuff dah jatuh No. 2....why??Sebab when it comes to perkahwinan...apa yg penting is what's in ur heart??what's in ur mind??are u mentally prepared??are u emotionally prepared??So...kwn2..are we well prepared now??
Saya tahu when it comes to physically..yes..all of us dah bersedia kot..dah ready nk jadi sum1 wife tapi in term of emotionally or mentally..are we ready girls??Ooo..sum1 use to said to me when u found sum1 yg you btl2 syg..yg btl2 nampak the husband quality..means yes..you are ready towards becoming a wife...but I do think it is more than just love or a guy quality...Bukan saya nk argue,but I do think..before and after marriage is a different things..before you berkahwin..all we do is just jumpa sekali sekala..or texting..or ym..or skyping..but after marriage my dear fren..we are goin to spent almost 24/7 with the same person, sleep on a same bed,bgn pagi tgk his face..before tido tgk his face...time tuh kita perlu sesuaikan diri with everything..with his habits/attitude semua sekali...if tak suka??boleh ke kita clash mcm biasa??cannot right...sbb I do believe as a women..bila kita nk berkahwin,we do married for life right??sape nk kahwin then divorced kan??Are we ready for that??
Sumpah..when I look back the things happen around me..tiba2..rasa takut nak kahwin..yes..I do afraid of the responsibility..I do afraid if one day the guy I'm married into think I'm a mistake?? Takut kan??Takut tak mampu nk hadapi alam perkahwinan itu sendiri....takut tiba2 husband tak syg kita ke..Umm..ya..perhaps I'm thinking too much..tapi tak salah kan??I do think women like to think too much..hehe!!
Well,in my opinion(pendapat saya ok..if x agree you can say so..hehe~)before berkahwin..do think deep..don't just think about 'duet nak kawen cukup ke tak'..seriously..duet itu tak kan pernah cukup..yg penting if niat kita itu betul insyaallah things r goin to be okay..don't rush when it comes to kahwin..slow2 but steady okay..I am not an expert when it comes to kahwin..but things does happen a lot around me nowadays..it make me think...are we ready towards that commitment??
But apa2 pon...I do wish yang terbaik to all my frens who are goin to get married..best wishes to all of you...semoga perkahwinan kita semua mendapat keberkatan dari ALLAH S.W.T.~
Banyak2 bersabar in facing semua dugaan yg hadir..jgn cepat membuat keputusan..think before you act..
To encik2 lelaki out there, yes..perempuan do think too much but please do understand us well..eventho kami marah..eventho kami merajuk..eventho kami senyap..eventho kami melenting...eventho kami sedih...satu je anda semua perlu tahu..once we love you..we love you for life, for eternity...or senang citer..our love is infinity..so please do defend our love okay..it is easy to fall in love but is is hard to fall out of love..~
2 comments:
wahh~~ i nak komen ni~ ehehe since i slalu ckp nak kawen.. hahah for its all about ur own self.. not others.. and bout the money thing.. eventho ur prepared emotionally, physically n mentally u kene prepared dr segi financially also, if u dont haf money babe.. ermm nak makan apa... duit tu bukan pikir nak kawen je.. it is beyond that.. after kawen and all.. u haf to think carefully.. yes money is not that important berbanding whether ur prepared or not, but seriously after married money plays an important role also, let say kawen without having enough money, u wont have stability in life.. so it is actually termasuk dalam whether u prepare or not
READY=in term of money, urself, mentally emotionally.. they are all in one and cannot be separate..
thats what i think la heheh
nice...gud of u sbb think financially is part of the things yg u kna fikir...yup2 agreed..like i said earlier babe..i'm open to any suggestion or comments..sbb ni from my point of view kan??so..sume org len kan view dia..but pape pn..i wish all da best 2 all of us..okay syg..;))
p/s: kumpul duet cpt2...i xsaba nk cari wedding dress ngan u..hehe!!~
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