Forgive & Forget

It is as easy as ABC to spell and to pronounce forgive & forget.

But, does it really easy to forgive and forget???

Have you heard of "I'm not ready to make nice" by Dixie Chicks??

To those who knows this song you might be so familiar to this clause,

"Forgive sounds good, forget I don't think I could.."

Ya, it is indeed so easy for us to forgive right??but to forget.....I don't think so....

It takes guts to forgive other people but to forget??

If and only if we caught on amnesia or perhaps even worse if we caught Alzheimer disease then..for sure we can forget..LOL~

If you ask me, I am a forgiver. I am not those kind a person who actually hold grudges to anyone but sorry to say, I don't forget~

I believe in karma and I believe in faith. "Buat baik dibalas baik, buat jahat dibalas jahat"

In life, as a human being, we tend to be hurt and to hurt other people right??

If I were to be hurt, it is quite easy for me to actually mend my own cuts...or frankly speaking, I am good at mending my broken/scratch heart..LOL~

When it comes to forget, I try too..but I can't...I guess, as a person we should just embrace it and let bygone be gone...let just keep those hurt memories intact in our brain~

I was actually inspired to talk about this due to a question by someone,
He asked me, "How come you actualy always being nice/good to me eventhough I keep hurting you and never once you complaint..."

I answered him by telling him:
"Because I love you and I care for you, but I never forget...maybe I am actually building up all those hurt feelings and one day, who knows...I will definitely hate you for good."

Ya, deep down..I will always forgive him because like I said, I love him...but I don't forget all those hurt feelings.....to me,once I love someone..the love will always remain back in my heart..ya..it will never change...come on la...why should we delete all those feeling??past love is always in memories....
betul tak??

Since we are near to the month of Syawal, let us forgive.....maybe not forget...

Dear ALL,

If I were to hurt anyone, from the bottom of my heart..I seek your forgiveness. Sorry for any wrong doings..kindly halalkan makan dan minum ya~Owhh...If I do owe anyone's money, kindly let me know..am not going to ask you guys to halalkan..LOL~

Happy Monday!!