Owhh...by the way, I have been in a long silence since I just got back from KK!!Will be blog about KK in my next post okies....
LELAKI MUDA??
Well, of course I am not that old...I'm going to be 26 next month and according to most of my friends & colleagues...26 IS NOT OLD ya people...FINE...I admit...I am still young eventho yes, I do feel old sometimes.....*stress* (itulah tanda2 manusia tua)
Okay...enough ramblings....back to the main topic please....
Lately, I have been approached by lots of lelaki muda....I know, it is not a sin to be with a much younger guys..even our prophet also have been married to a much older woman "Khadijah".
But....seriously people, I am not ready to commit myself with a younger guy...I mean if a guy is a year younger than me, I am still okay with it...but if he happens to be more than 2 years younger than me, well....I am definitely not okay with it!!
Okay fine, perhaps I am a bit bias....org ckp, if we keep on against it, mayb nanti mmg itulah yg kita dpt kn??Well, if we were to talk about jodoh...seriously...I have no says...I mean, JODOH/PERTEMUAN is in god's hand...I believe in faith as I believe in JODOH...saya hanya mampu berdoa supaya ditemukan dgn lelaki yg mampu menjadi IMAM ku~
Actually, I do have my own views when it comes to lelaki muda....
No, I am not saying that I don't like lelaki muda...I am okay with them..I mean, we can't simply define guys base on their age right??I mean..it is true..most guys lambat menunjukkan their maturity but hey..there are men out there yg mature at their young age..I mean when it comes to maturity, we need to see things in all aspects...life environment, peers, etc...
But, sorry to say..most men in Malaysia..they tend to be lambat sedikit when it comes to maturity...They tend to take things easy and they are not serious..sbb itu I don't really trust those guys below 25years old when they came to me and said, " I really2 liked you.."...I've been there..and look where I end up??ALONE again....LOL~
Am I stress with lelaki muda??Not really...but I am quite frustrated in them....^_~
Tapi....like I said, this is only my humble opinions....I do not mean any harm by blogging this topic ya...
Actually, I am inspired to talk about this since I saw lots of women out there tend to be with someone younger than them...well, it is not a sin and tak salah pun...we always said that love is blind right??So, what the heck??But....for the sake of all women...I hope...all of us should think carefully and choose wisely...manusia in our era..they tend to be deceitful and lelaki nowadays...they will do almost anything for their own benefits...
Be careful Women~
11 comments:
lelaki muda tak matang okayyyy!!!!! hahaha...hid pon bias...but then lelaki tua pon tak matang jugaaa! apakan daya... :( hihihi :P
ps hid yg xle tido at 5 am..abaikan :P
lelaki muda kalau kawin awal, mungkin proses kematangan akan berlaku dengan lebih cepat... (",)
perkahwinan mengajar erti kematangan... (",)
hid: agreed!!perhaps mtg itu subjektif~hee
fuad: mungkin..like i said, byk faktor yg membuatkan seorang lelaki itu mtg...;)
Im 20 n im in love wit someone that older yhan me. Is is normal rite ? Hahaha. I dun know y.
when it comes to love...everything seems normal..btw, it is up to u to define ur love as long as u r sincere about it..;)
oooo..so this is one of the reason why most girl/women choose to approach old guy c/w misai lebat..hahaha =]
en little less conversation:
frankly speaking, yes...hehe~
but i know, taste lelaki nowadays is perempuan yg mtg..kan2??
hahaha..topik panas ni.bru terbaca.pendapat sy pula x kesah spe yg lbh tua,lelaki atau perempuan.Tp harus ada rasa tanggungjawab.terutamanya pd si lelaki la.nti nk jadi ketua keluarga kn.klu lelaki yg setakat nk main geli2 je,xde tanggungjawab lgsg,nk berpasangan tp xpnh ingat nk berumah tangga,elok jauhi prmpn yg lbh tua dr mereka.sbb itu hny akn bazirkn masa si perempuan.lelaki tua pun ramai je gadis2 muda nk.tp prmpn tua ni ssh ckit,klu ada duit bru ada yg sudi.pndg duit,bkn sbb ikhlas mmg xkn bahagia.utk sy,x kesah la dpt prmpn tua.tp jgn la jauh sgt beza.+_+ setahun 2thn ok la kot.mereka manja,berdikari,dan menjaga. :)
pheww~semputt..bkn main pnjg lg.haha
nice thoughts..that's the whole point actually..most of lelaki muda tend to take advantage actually..mayb tak semua but apa2 pun...love is blind, masing2 ada akal, so kindly use it wisely.
dun be to blind by love suda..at least use a bit of ur mind instead of using ur heart to do the thinking...;)
owhh...frankly speaking....wanita skrg mmg prefer lelaki tua sbb they really do know how to handle younger woman..n younger women tend to be more obedient with much older guys rather with sum1 yg sebaya or muda..hehe~
semoga dpt lelaki tua eh.hahahah ;P
haha...i wish..but am not picky either..ada jodoh nti adalah..;D
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