I am curious...and I have no answer for the above question.
Since the days I started to be actively occupied myself with social networks..I do notice, most women we do received unknown male friend's invitation (means they want to be friend laa..)...and it does make me wonder..why do men whom we don't actually know their existence tend to simply add sum1 like us that you don't even know???WHY INDEED??
Well, I do ask few men on regards this matter and sadly the answers are not up to my expectation...you know...typical male answers.."Owhh..because we just simply want to get to know the woman/girl" why you want to know us??what is your intention??
Am not going to deny that most of people's relationship nowadays are simply begin from a social network (FB/TWITTER/ETC)..I don't see nothing wrong with that but personally, I don't really agree..LOL~Well, call me old fashion...I do believe in normal or a traditional courtship where, a guy should be more gentleman and come to me personally to get to know me....hee~
Obviously, it is imposible...since men nowadays does rely on technology when it comes to courtship...for example like PM (private message) in FB, send email and sms'ing...BETUL TAK??
I do think I should be born during the 18th century and below where people are more traditional and conventional....*major sigh*
Most people claim that I am too choosy or too snob when it comes to guys..they said, that I should take chances on those who try to court me..but....seriously people...how am I suppose to take chances on men who use technology to court me??How am I suppose to know that they are serious and they have noble intention??Lelaki nowadays is macam-macam okay....my dad always told me not to simply trust men...Macam mana??I am afraid to be hurt, to be manipulate and most of all....I need to protect my own heart tau!!
Perhaps I am being too paranoid kan??I admit, I do think too much as I am very good at analysing things...Yes, I am a type of a person who think first before act..so...you know la...too paranoid, too judgemental, too afraid....
But still, anyone...kindly tell me, what is your intention when you add unknown people in social network??
8 comments:
nak stalk maybe??
high 5! Hid pon old fashion...hihi...but I guess I tot that's how things work but I misjudge :(
I know it's not easy to find someone you'll fall for. and I know once you fall, it's not easy to let it out and I know it's pretty complicated but if he's true enough he'll let the world knows and most important you know...
but then again, it doesn't happen these days..people like easy way..
but yeh, he's out there, perhaps masih perbaiki diri...one fine day tihah, one fine day insyaAllah..
sorrylah membebel..hehe
sumi: tu yg tamau..hee
hid: thank you love...you really do understand me..hee~
for now, I wait...good thing worth a wait kn??tkpe...mcm hid ckp..keep on pray and insyallah..one fine day~
nak stalk pic salah satu sebab sy add unknown people..haha =p
so u just approve or still choose it?
lelaki miang/prmpn gatal je add org x dikenali. desperate sgt kot..contoh social network cm fb.sbnrnya fb tu tmpt kwn dgn kwn je,tp da disalah ertikn.mencari jodoh plk dia dlm tu.pantang tgk awek/pkwe dahi licin,tgn gatal je nk add.x cun pun..edit je bagai.
yg prmpn jenis lemah iman plk pantang le lelaki ayat ckit.pdhal x kenal pun.cair....mcm ais.bgs la awk x mcmtu.seorg gadis mmg patut berhati2 lm memilih psgn/teman supaya maruah dri terjaga. ;)
blog lain la..mmg terbuka.klu xnk baik private je kn xde la org yg x dikenali follow.
a little less conversation:
well, fb is open but i keep it private for my twitter..so, unknown ppl may add my fb but i will approve them when i'm in the mood to approve..hee~
abg stalker:
wow..very harsh of u...hehe!!
well, i dun consider them as gtl or miang but i guess if u want to add sum1, u need to hav a reason for that...if u nk knl sum1 then be truthful and it is up to the person itself nk accept or not la..btl x??;)
betul3!haha..yela,niat kne betul.kdg2 kita x knl tp nk add jgk.jangan la add sbb rupa je.dats y iz buat 1 la acc fb dan private sume album.bosan nk balas komen org.lg2 org x knl.
lupakan...awk kn rmi peminat..hee~
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