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By Yasmin Mogahed.
When I was growing up, the world was a perfect place. The only problem was that it wasn’t. I used to believe that everything could always be ‘fair’. To me that meant no one should ever be wronged, and if they were, justice must be served. I fought hard for the way I believed things should be. But in my struggle, I overlooked a fundamental truth about this life. In my childish idealism, I failed to understand that this world is inherently imperfect. We, as humans, are inherently imperfect. So we will always mess up. And in those mess-ups, we will inevitably hurt others, knowingly, and unknowingly, intentionally and unintentionally. The world would not always be fair.
Does that mean we stop struggling against injustice, or give up on Truth? Of course not. But it means we must not hold this world – and others – to an unrealistic standard. But that’s not always easy. How do we live in a world so flawed, where people let us down, and even our own family can break our heart? And perhaps, hardest of all, how do we learn to forgive when we have been wronged? How do we become strong, without being hard, and remain soft, without being weak? When do we hold on, and when can we let go? When does caring too much, become too much? And is there such a thing as loving more than we should?
To begin to find these answers, we have to first take a step outside our own lives. We need to examine whether we are the first or the last to feel pain or be wronged. We need to look at those who came before us, to study their struggles, and their triumphs. And we need to recognize that growth never comes without pain, and success is only a product of struggle. That struggle almost always includes withstanding and overcoming the harms inflicted by others.
Recalling the shining examples of our prophets will remind us that our pain is not isolated. Remember that Prophet Nuh was abused by his people for 950 years. The Quran tells us: “Before them the People of Noah rejected (their apostle): they rejected Our servant, and said, ‘Here is one possessed!’, and he was driven out.” (Qur’an, 54:9) Nuh was abused so much that he finally “called on his Lord: ‘I am one overcome: do Thou then help (me)!’” (Qur’an, 54:10)
Or we can call to mind how the Prophet ﷺ was pelted with stones, until he bled, and how the companions were beaten and starved. All of this harm was at the hands of others. Even the angels understood this aspect of human nature – before we even came to be. When Allah told the angels that He would create humanity, their first question was about this harmful potential of humans. Allah tells us: “Behold, thy Lord said to the angels: ‘I will create a vicegerent (humanity) on earth.’ They said: ‘Wilt Thou place therein one who will make mischief therein and shed blood?’” (Qur’an, 2:30)
This potential of humanity to commit horrific crimes against each other is a sad reality of this life. And yet many of us are so blessed. Most of us have not had to face the type of calamities that others have endured throughout time. Most of us will never have to watch as our families are tortured or killed. And yet, there are few of us who could say we have never been hurt, in one way or another, at the hands of someone else. So although most of us will never have to know the feeling of starving to death or standing helpless as our homes are destroyed, most of us will know what it means to cry from a wounded heart.
Is it possible to avoid this? To some degree, I think it is. We can never avoid all pain, but by adjusting our expectation, our response, and our focus, we can avoid much devastation. For example, putting our entire trust, reliance, and hope in another person is unrealistic and just plain foolish. We have to remember that humans are fallible and therefore, our ultimate trust, reliance, and hope should only be put in Allah. Allah says: “…whoever rejects evil and believes in Allah has grasped the most trustworthy handhold that never breaks. And Allah is Hearing and Knowing of all things.” (Qur’an, 2: 256) Knowing that Allah is the only handhold that never breaks, will save us from much unneeded disappointment.
And yet this is not to say that we should not love or that we should love less. It is how we love that is important. Nothing should be our ultimate object of love, except Allah. Nothing should come before Allah in our hearts. And we should never come to a point where we love something, other than Allah, in such a way, that it would be impossible to continue life without it. This type of ‘love’ is not love, but actually worship and it causes nothing but pain.
But what happens when we’ve done all that and still we have been hurt or wronged by others – as will also inevitably happen? How can we do what is the hardest? How can we learn to forgive?
How can we learn to mend our scars and continue being good to people, even when they are not good to us?
In the story of Abu Bakr radi Allahu `anhu (may Allah be pleased with him), is a beautiful example of exactly that. After his daughter, `Ayesha (r), was slandered in the worst way, Abu Bakr (r) found out that the man who began the rumor was Mistah, a cousin who Abu Bakr had been supporting financially. Naturally Abu Bakr withheld the charity he had been giving the slanderer. Soon after, Allah revealed the following ayah: “Let not those among you who are endued with grace and amplitude of means resolve by oath against helping their kinsmen, those in want and those who migrated in the path of Allah. Let them forgive and overlook. Do you not wish that Allah should forgive you? Indeed Allah is oft-Forgiving, most Merciful.” (Qur’an, 24:22) Upon hearing this ayah, Abu Bakr resolved that he did want Allah’s forgiveness, and so he not only continued to give the man money, he gave him more.
This type of forgiveness is at the very heart of being a believer. In describing these believers, Allah says: “And who shun the more heinous sins and abominations; and who, whenever they are moved to anger, readily forgive.” (Qur’an, 42:37)
The ability to readily forgive should be driven by an awareness of our own flaws and mistakes towards others. But most of all, our humility should be driven by the fact that we wrong Allah every single day of our lives, when we sin. Who are we compared to Allah? And yet, Allah, Master of the universe, forgives by day and by night. Who are we to withhold forgiveness? If we hope to be forgiven by Allah, how can we not forgive others? It is for this reason that the Prophet ﷺ teaches us: “Those who show no mercy to others will have no mercy shown to them by Allah.” [Muslim]
This hope for Allah’s mercy should motivate our own desire to forgive and to one day enter the only world that really is perfect.
Moral of the story is, learn how to forgive and try not to hold any grudges. Sometime, rasa sakit itu datang dari dendam dalam hati. Ya, bkn senang nak padam dendam dalam hati but I believe, usaha itu tangga kejayaan. Start with a simple forgiveness and insyaallah rasa sakit dalam hati itu akan hilang. Have faith in HIM.
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Less Facebook
Ehem*
Good Morning~
Sekarangkan saya sudah less active in Facebook. No, I don’t hate FB but I am merely bored with FB. Seriously I found nothing interesting in FB except for the fact that I have to keep my FB account alive for the sake of my old friends. Saya sayang mahu close account sebab FB has reunited me with several old friends masa sekolah dulu. If I did close my account, then I will definitely akan lost contact balik…
To tell you the truth, saya bukan sekadar less active in FB but actually saya memang dah tak buka FB langsung. And practically, I don’t have a clue on what is going on with FB. Cool kan??
Terus terang, saya tidak suka FB because it remind me of someone. Sebab that someone la saya ada FB account. And the fact that I can still see his latest progress or info menyebabkan saya jadi tidak sedap hati or dengan lebih tepat lg..it makes me uncomfortable. Okay..maybe orang akan cakap saya masih lagi tidak move on. Fine….maybe yes and maybe no. Saya rasa, saya memang dah move on habis dah sebab I am no longer mengingati our kisah lama. Sebab kisah itu saya sudah simpan jauh dalam recycle bin. Tapi itu lah, saya masih tidak mampu untuk berhadapan dengan manusia itu..bukan sebab takut or I have feeling for him but I am afraid that I might cry when I saw him. LOL~ Ya…masih lagi tidak kuat untuk berhadapan dengan manusia itu sebab rasa sakit itu sangat dalam. Hee~
The thing is, my personal problem has nothing to do with FB pun. If anda di luar sana enjoy ber “facebook”, please do so…Lagipun, I don’t really like the changes in FB. Seriously, it is super confusing. And benda yg saya paling tidak suka is when strangers can actually view my pictures. I have already make it private kot but still ada jugak orang can simply comment my pictures. It is a major turn off okay!! FB is less private nowadays sbb itu saya malas nak active macam dulu2. Sekarang, I have turn into a Twitterholic. Pagi petang, siang malam…is all about twitter. My sister sangat pelik kenapa saya terlalu obsess with Twitter. LOL~ I think twitter is the best medium for you to actually express all your thoughts. I mean, I tweet what I feel. If ada manusia yg feel offended in any way…berjuta maaf ku pinta ya..Hee~
Dah lama tidak meluahkan perasaan di dalam blog, finally…I am willing to open up my heart. Bukan sengaja nak bercerita but I have too…so that beban ini akan reduce sedikit. Lagi satu so that other people know why I don’t like to facebooking anymore. Bukan sebab saya sombong, but I merely want to protect myself from getting hurt. I believe seseorang itu perlu menjaga hati dia dulu sebelum sibuk nak menjaga hati orang. No, am not encourage people to be selfish, but I think manusia sekarang terlalu memikirkan hati dan hal orang lain instead of taking care of their own problem. Remember, by taking care of yourself, you might help other people to care about themselves too.
Okay..enough bebels..jum kerja!!
Bye
p/s: pipi saya dah macam hamster kan?? T_T
Monday, February 13, 2012
Si Jimmy
My owner has 4 children. But one of them is an Airulophobia which is a type of specific phobia when it comes to cats. She is irrationally feared of me. She can’t simply be near me at least 10 feet away. Obviously I am an adorable cat but she loathes me. She tends to hysterically scream if I go near her. But I’m cool since I know my master love me. He gives me absolute best care. I even own a house on my own. If they were to go on a vacation, my master will send me to a pet hotel to make sure all my needs are been taking care of. Such a good master he is.
The thing is, I am too having this fear when it comes to human. I don’t like to be near strangers. They surely give me this creepy feeling. I love when people massage my body as I feel a bit relax and I am able to calm myself. I don’t like when people try to play rough with me, so if you play rough with me..then I will bite you!!
I like to play catch when I am in the mood of playing. Lately I find myself a bit fat. I think I am fat since I have done no exercising. I try to run in order to lose weight but I tend to get exhausted pretty easy nowadays.
Owhh..and yes…I don’t like to mingle around with other cats because they are practically dangerous. I try to befriend one of the stray cat outside my house but it turn out that the cat is nasty and smelly. The cat also tries to scare me away. The conclusion is, I hate stray cats!!
LOL~
Inilah Jimmy…Kucing yg super gedik dan manja. Badan jer gemuk dan besar tapi dia seorang yg penakut!! Walaubagaimanapun, saya sayang Jimmy eventho he is not mine. Ya, my mom won’t allow me to have any pets. Currently sedang rindu Jimmy and looking forward to hug and kiss him later after work!!
Ok Bye
Thursday, February 9, 2012
Hook up with ALLAH, ALLAH will hook you up.
Dear Muslim & Muslimah,
Kindly read this article from Suhaibwebb.com..A very good article to keep us near with our CREATOR.
I came upon this website through a friend who constantly reminds me on the beautiful of being a muslim. Therefore, I would love to share it in my blog. It is possible that I am going to share lots of articles from his website. Hee~
Ok, Bacalah…
Before I got married, I was given unsolicited advice on how to change in order to make myself “more appealing” to brothers. Sisters would voluntarily tell me I should be more outgoing when with men, dress more attractively to get their attention and stop being as involved with Islamic activism so I would not scare them away.
Since when is our purpose in life marriage? Where in the Qur’an does Allah ask us to change our personalities, dress style and tone down our activism in hopes of getting hitched? Nevertheless, with marriage being such a huge concern in our community, many face the temptation to change their values to find a spouse.
Here’s an idea: Instead of working to please a potential suitor, perhaps we should first seek to please Allah, the One who sows the seed of love in our hearts and can bless us with our dream husband or dream wife.
Instead of looking for marriage at every event, let’s look for marriage in our relationship with al-Wahhab, the Giver of All. Let’s be honest. We are talking about al-Mujeeb, the Responder to Prayer. Those are amongst the Names of Allah! Allah gives and He answers!
If you are an individual who struggles to lower your gaze and protect your eyes, heart, tongue and body from falling into the haram, don’t you know that Allah will indeed reward you?
Every time you glance up and see someone you wish you could be with, turn away and in that moment ask Allah to bless you with a spouse who will be the sweetness of your eyes. Would not Allah listen to and accept your supplication to Him? How could Allah possibly not accept the supplication of His adamant worshipper who is painfully struggling to maintain his or her modesty and guard his or her chastity? The Prophet ﷺ has encouraged us to “Ask and you will be given…” (at-Tirmithi) Allah will give you! How could He not when you are striving only for His Sake?
In those moments in the last third of the night, in those two rakahs which you make out of pure frustration of your situation, weeping, asking Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala – exalted is He) to answer you – do you not think Allah the Rabb al-`alameen (Lord of the Worlds) will not respond to you? Allahu Akbar (God is the Greatest), this is Allah! Without doubt Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) is going to answer you!
The Prophet ﷺ relates from Allah in a hadith Qudsi:
“Our Lord (glorified and exalted be He) descends each night to the earth’s sky when there remains the final third of the night, and He says: ‘Who is saying a prayer to Me that I may answer it? Who is asking something of Me that I may give it him? Who is asking forgiveness of Me that I may forgive him?’” (Bukhari)
What is hooking up with a brother or sister on gchat or facebook worth in comparison to hooking up with the One who can hook you up?
As Shaykh Muhammad Faqih once said, “Hook up with Allah, Allah will hook you up!”
Let’s hook up with salah! Hook up with the Qur’an! Hook up with community work for Allah’s Sake! And have certainty that when we struggle to please Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala), Ash-Shakoor is the Most Appreciative of our work and will undoubtedly reward us.
Will that reward be in the form of an amazing spouse and an amazing marriage? Allah knows best. But the best part is that Allah knows what is BEST for us and that His bounties are limitless.
The Prophet ﷺ has told us, “Any Muslim who supplicates to Allah in a du`a’ which contains no sin [of] breaking of kinship, Allah will give him one of three things: either his du`a’ will be immediately answered, it will be saved for him in the hereafter, or it will turn away an equivalent amount of evil (from him)…” (Ahmad).
Thus, we must know that if we connect with Allah, we can trust that Allah will grant us whatever is best, whether it be an answer to exactly what we are asking for or something better. Allah has got our backs! Who better to trust our future with than the One who already knows it?
Easier said than done? Maybe. But what have you got to lose? If at the end of the day you are only increasing in closeness to Allah, increasing in reading the Qur’an, tasting the sweetness of your salah, and making more sincere du`a’ then insha’Allah (if Allah wills) you will have gained more than simply “a spouse” if you get married and you would have gained much more than facebook “cruising for a spouse” time while you’re attempting to find your better half…Insha’Allah you will gain more in this life and the next, and an unwavering relationship with Allah!
Here are some short, quick and amazing ways we can increase our relationship with Allah through good deeds massively rewarded inshaAllah:
To get what you really want: “Allah will grant whoever recites this seven times in the morning or evening whatever he desires from this world or the next” (Ibn As Sunni, Abu Dawood – both reports are directly linked to the Prophet ﷺ):
"HasbiaAllahu la ilaha ila huwa `alayhi tawakaltu wa huwa Rabbu’l`arshi’l`atheem."
“Allah is Sufficient for me, none has the right to be worshipped except Him, upon Him I rely and He is Lord of the exalted throne.”
To be recited seven times in the morning (after Fajr) and seven times in the evening (between `Asr and Maghrib).
And say “Subhan’Allah” (glory be to Allah) 100 times. For a person who does this, “a thousand good deeds are recorded for him and a thousand bad deeds are wiped away.” [Muslim]
And ask Allah to forgive your brothers and sisters: “Whoever seeks forgiveness for believing men and believing woman, Allah will write for him a good deed for each believing man and believing woman.” [at-Tabarani, classed as hasan by al-Albani]
And; Work to protect yourself from the Hellfire: “Allah will spare whoever says this four times in the morning or evening from the fire of Hell” (Abu Dawood, was also reported in Bukhari).
Allahumma inni asbahtu ush-hiduka, wa ushidu hamalata `arshika, wa mala’ikataka, wa jamee`a khalqik, annaka Ant Allah, la ilaha illa Ant, wahdaka la shareeka lak, wa anna Muhammadan `abduka wa rasuluka (when saying this in the evening, say “Allahuma inni amsaytu” instead of “asbahtu.”
“O Allah, verily I have reached the morning and call on You, the bearers of Your throne, Your angels, and all of Your creation to witness that You are Allah, none has the right to be worshipped except You, alone, without partner and that Muhammad is Your Servant and Messenger.” To be recited four times in the morning (after Fajr) and evening (between `Asr and Maghrib).
The Lord of the Worlds speaks to us and tells us, “And when My slaves ask you concerning Me, then I am indeed near. I respond to the invocations of the supplicant when he calls on Me. So let them obey Me and believe in Me, so that they may be led aright” (Quran, 2:186).
You are coming to Allah with rajaa (hope), with a powerful combination of seeking Allah’s pleasure, striving to leave anything which may gain His displeasure and making a consistent effort to ask Him to open the best of ways for you and then putting your trust in Him that He will give you whatever is best. Of course Allah is going to answer you.
As was once stated, “A person has never held certainty in Allah only for Allah to disappoint him/her.’ Never will Allah disappoint those with yaqeen (certainty), tawakkul (reliance) and husn al-dhann (good opinion) of Him.” Hook up with Allah and know that without a doubt, Allah ‘azza wa Jall will hook you up in the best of ways.
Originally written by Maryam Amir Ebrahimi
See, what a beautiful path indeed if we hook up with ALLAH. Be near to HIM and insyaallah HE will help us find our happiness. This article adalah peringatan untuk diri sendiri actually. But I see no harm to share a good article, so let us take a moment and ponder upon yourself.
Will share yet another beautiful article yg definitely will make you cry because I did.
Kindly read this article from Suhaibwebb.com..A very good article to keep us near with our CREATOR.
I came upon this website through a friend who constantly reminds me on the beautiful of being a muslim. Therefore, I would love to share it in my blog. It is possible that I am going to share lots of articles from his website. Hee~
Ok, Bacalah…
Before I got married, I was given unsolicited advice on how to change in order to make myself “more appealing” to brothers. Sisters would voluntarily tell me I should be more outgoing when with men, dress more attractively to get their attention and stop being as involved with Islamic activism so I would not scare them away.
Since when is our purpose in life marriage? Where in the Qur’an does Allah ask us to change our personalities, dress style and tone down our activism in hopes of getting hitched? Nevertheless, with marriage being such a huge concern in our community, many face the temptation to change their values to find a spouse.
Here’s an idea: Instead of working to please a potential suitor, perhaps we should first seek to please Allah, the One who sows the seed of love in our hearts and can bless us with our dream husband or dream wife.
Instead of looking for marriage at every event, let’s look for marriage in our relationship with al-Wahhab, the Giver of All. Let’s be honest. We are talking about al-Mujeeb, the Responder to Prayer. Those are amongst the Names of Allah! Allah gives and He answers!
If you are an individual who struggles to lower your gaze and protect your eyes, heart, tongue and body from falling into the haram, don’t you know that Allah will indeed reward you?
Every time you glance up and see someone you wish you could be with, turn away and in that moment ask Allah to bless you with a spouse who will be the sweetness of your eyes. Would not Allah listen to and accept your supplication to Him? How could Allah possibly not accept the supplication of His adamant worshipper who is painfully struggling to maintain his or her modesty and guard his or her chastity? The Prophet ﷺ has encouraged us to “Ask and you will be given…” (at-Tirmithi) Allah will give you! How could He not when you are striving only for His Sake?
In those moments in the last third of the night, in those two rakahs which you make out of pure frustration of your situation, weeping, asking Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala – exalted is He) to answer you – do you not think Allah the Rabb al-`alameen (Lord of the Worlds) will not respond to you? Allahu Akbar (God is the Greatest), this is Allah! Without doubt Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) is going to answer you!
The Prophet ﷺ relates from Allah in a hadith Qudsi:
“Our Lord (glorified and exalted be He) descends each night to the earth’s sky when there remains the final third of the night, and He says: ‘Who is saying a prayer to Me that I may answer it? Who is asking something of Me that I may give it him? Who is asking forgiveness of Me that I may forgive him?’” (Bukhari)
What is hooking up with a brother or sister on gchat or facebook worth in comparison to hooking up with the One who can hook you up?
As Shaykh Muhammad Faqih once said, “Hook up with Allah, Allah will hook you up!”
Let’s hook up with salah! Hook up with the Qur’an! Hook up with community work for Allah’s Sake! And have certainty that when we struggle to please Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala), Ash-Shakoor is the Most Appreciative of our work and will undoubtedly reward us.
Will that reward be in the form of an amazing spouse and an amazing marriage? Allah knows best. But the best part is that Allah knows what is BEST for us and that His bounties are limitless.
The Prophet ﷺ has told us, “Any Muslim who supplicates to Allah in a du`a’ which contains no sin [of] breaking of kinship, Allah will give him one of three things: either his du`a’ will be immediately answered, it will be saved for him in the hereafter, or it will turn away an equivalent amount of evil (from him)…” (Ahmad).
Thus, we must know that if we connect with Allah, we can trust that Allah will grant us whatever is best, whether it be an answer to exactly what we are asking for or something better. Allah has got our backs! Who better to trust our future with than the One who already knows it?
Easier said than done? Maybe. But what have you got to lose? If at the end of the day you are only increasing in closeness to Allah, increasing in reading the Qur’an, tasting the sweetness of your salah, and making more sincere du`a’ then insha’Allah (if Allah wills) you will have gained more than simply “a spouse” if you get married and you would have gained much more than facebook “cruising for a spouse” time while you’re attempting to find your better half…Insha’Allah you will gain more in this life and the next, and an unwavering relationship with Allah!
Here are some short, quick and amazing ways we can increase our relationship with Allah through good deeds massively rewarded inshaAllah:
To get what you really want: “Allah will grant whoever recites this seven times in the morning or evening whatever he desires from this world or the next” (Ibn As Sunni, Abu Dawood – both reports are directly linked to the Prophet ﷺ):
"HasbiaAllahu la ilaha ila huwa `alayhi tawakaltu wa huwa Rabbu’l`arshi’l`atheem."
“Allah is Sufficient for me, none has the right to be worshipped except Him, upon Him I rely and He is Lord of the exalted throne.”
To be recited seven times in the morning (after Fajr) and seven times in the evening (between `Asr and Maghrib).
And say “Subhan’Allah” (glory be to Allah) 100 times. For a person who does this, “a thousand good deeds are recorded for him and a thousand bad deeds are wiped away.” [Muslim]
And ask Allah to forgive your brothers and sisters: “Whoever seeks forgiveness for believing men and believing woman, Allah will write for him a good deed for each believing man and believing woman.” [at-Tabarani, classed as hasan by al-Albani]
And; Work to protect yourself from the Hellfire: “Allah will spare whoever says this four times in the morning or evening from the fire of Hell” (Abu Dawood, was also reported in Bukhari).
Allahumma inni asbahtu ush-hiduka, wa ushidu hamalata `arshika, wa mala’ikataka, wa jamee`a khalqik, annaka Ant Allah, la ilaha illa Ant, wahdaka la shareeka lak, wa anna Muhammadan `abduka wa rasuluka (when saying this in the evening, say “Allahuma inni amsaytu” instead of “asbahtu.”
“O Allah, verily I have reached the morning and call on You, the bearers of Your throne, Your angels, and all of Your creation to witness that You are Allah, none has the right to be worshipped except You, alone, without partner and that Muhammad is Your Servant and Messenger.” To be recited four times in the morning (after Fajr) and evening (between `Asr and Maghrib).
The Lord of the Worlds speaks to us and tells us, “And when My slaves ask you concerning Me, then I am indeed near. I respond to the invocations of the supplicant when he calls on Me. So let them obey Me and believe in Me, so that they may be led aright” (Quran, 2:186).
You are coming to Allah with rajaa (hope), with a powerful combination of seeking Allah’s pleasure, striving to leave anything which may gain His displeasure and making a consistent effort to ask Him to open the best of ways for you and then putting your trust in Him that He will give you whatever is best. Of course Allah is going to answer you.
As was once stated, “A person has never held certainty in Allah only for Allah to disappoint him/her.’ Never will Allah disappoint those with yaqeen (certainty), tawakkul (reliance) and husn al-dhann (good opinion) of Him.” Hook up with Allah and know that without a doubt, Allah ‘azza wa Jall will hook you up in the best of ways.
Originally written by Maryam Amir Ebrahimi
See, what a beautiful path indeed if we hook up with ALLAH. Be near to HIM and insyaallah HE will help us find our happiness. This article adalah peringatan untuk diri sendiri actually. But I see no harm to share a good article, so let us take a moment and ponder upon yourself.
Will share yet another beautiful article yg definitely will make you cry because I did.
Alhamdulillah....
I have received a good news today!! Syukur sangat2...I never thought I will be accepted tapi itulah..rezeki tuhan nak beri..alhamdulillah...Thanks to my beautiful bebeh jgk for her initiative..if not mesti tak dapat...ok..now I need to be positive and start to finishing up my work...ok bye!!
Errr..picture itu sbg hiasan...lol
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Wednesday, February 8, 2012
USS dalam kenangan......
Okay, finally….I do have time to blog about our trip to USS (Universal Studio Singapore). Not that I can’t blog when I am at home, I can but seriously I spent a lot of time outside my house instead of spending time at home and lolling around. Kenapa?? Because my family like to go out and jalan2 cari makan. We are only at home during dinner time and malam is my time to berjimba with all the cousins so technically speaking, how am I suppose to blog? LOL~
USS is super awesome!! Actually our trip is super duper awesome since it is our first trip without our parent. Ya, it is a family trip where 12 of us spent some quality time and menghabiskan duit ibu bapa masing-masing…hee~
We are heading to JB by bus since our parent won’t allow us to drive. Naik bus pun best jugak, in fact it is cool since we are able to borak-borak and buat bising dalam bus. I bet other passengers mesti sgt piss off with us since we are the only passengers’ yg tidak tidur all the way from KL to JB. I guess we are too excited to sleep. We are safely arrived in JB at 9pm. The thing is, I am the oldest among them all so I have to arrange everything from A to Z. It is easy to arrange a holiday but it is not easy when it comes to managing people. There are few issues la yg I am so malas to mention but I am proud to say all of them are well behaved. Thanks to my brother for helping me and support us financially..Ya, adik saya banyak duit!!! *jealous*
The next day, barulah we all head to Singapore!!Due to major excitement…all of us woke up at 5am and waiting for our bus to USS. Sesungguhnya, I can’t believe all of them are willing to bgn awal since I know my cousins…kalau tak dijerit memang jangan haraplah for them to bgn awl.
Setiba di USS, guess what…without having any breakfast…all of us decided to take a ride on the most terrifying roller coaster ever. Am not a brave woman when it comes to roller coaster but since semua pun insist to ride so I joined them. Hasilnya…right after turun dari roller coaster, I threw up twice!!! Nice kan??Ya, sekiranya anda ingin membunuh jantung anda atau ingin terkena serangan jantung, sila lah naik roller coaster ini. Seriously, I had my eyes close all the way and terasa seperti jantung nak tercabut. Sekian terima kasih. LOL
I think the best ride in USS is the Transformer’s ride. Memang sangat amazing with all the 4D effects plus anda akan berasa seperti berada di dalam movie itself. It is worth a long queue!! And yes, it is advisable to be there dari pagi sampai malam so that you will never miss a single activity.
But, a word of advice…be careful when it comes to foods because as we all know, Singapore do serve pork. Therefore, kindly find a restaurant with a “Halal” logo. It is certified by their Muslim Council. Since we are a muslim..no worries..they do provide us a small surau. Even though it is not as comfortable as what we have in Malaysia but at least I am glad that they do provide us a prayer room.
Shopping in USS is pretty much nothing. But it is a must to grab fridge magnets and few key chains for our parent. I think we do spend a lot on makan and drinks while we are in USS.
If u were travelling in a group make sure korg pesan dekat mana nak meet up in case of tiba2 terhilang tau..Owhh…not to forget, sila lah ambil pictures dgn banyak nya sebab you will eventually meet up with few characters yg best2!! Seriously…I miss USS!! Rindu nak naik Transformer’s ride!!!
Okay..saya sudah ke sana, anda bila lagi??
p/s: Kindly buy tickets with our local agencies sbb if you buy directly with USS, the price is much more expensive.
USS is super awesome!! Actually our trip is super duper awesome since it is our first trip without our parent. Ya, it is a family trip where 12 of us spent some quality time and menghabiskan duit ibu bapa masing-masing…hee~
We are heading to JB by bus since our parent won’t allow us to drive. Naik bus pun best jugak, in fact it is cool since we are able to borak-borak and buat bising dalam bus. I bet other passengers mesti sgt piss off with us since we are the only passengers’ yg tidak tidur all the way from KL to JB. I guess we are too excited to sleep. We are safely arrived in JB at 9pm. The thing is, I am the oldest among them all so I have to arrange everything from A to Z. It is easy to arrange a holiday but it is not easy when it comes to managing people. There are few issues la yg I am so malas to mention but I am proud to say all of them are well behaved. Thanks to my brother for helping me and support us financially..Ya, adik saya banyak duit!!! *jealous*
The next day, barulah we all head to Singapore!!Due to major excitement…all of us woke up at 5am and waiting for our bus to USS. Sesungguhnya, I can’t believe all of them are willing to bgn awal since I know my cousins…kalau tak dijerit memang jangan haraplah for them to bgn awl.
Setiba di USS, guess what…without having any breakfast…all of us decided to take a ride on the most terrifying roller coaster ever. Am not a brave woman when it comes to roller coaster but since semua pun insist to ride so I joined them. Hasilnya…right after turun dari roller coaster, I threw up twice!!! Nice kan??Ya, sekiranya anda ingin membunuh jantung anda atau ingin terkena serangan jantung, sila lah naik roller coaster ini. Seriously, I had my eyes close all the way and terasa seperti jantung nak tercabut. Sekian terima kasih. LOL
I think the best ride in USS is the Transformer’s ride. Memang sangat amazing with all the 4D effects plus anda akan berasa seperti berada di dalam movie itself. It is worth a long queue!! And yes, it is advisable to be there dari pagi sampai malam so that you will never miss a single activity.
But, a word of advice…be careful when it comes to foods because as we all know, Singapore do serve pork. Therefore, kindly find a restaurant with a “Halal” logo. It is certified by their Muslim Council. Since we are a muslim..no worries..they do provide us a small surau. Even though it is not as comfortable as what we have in Malaysia but at least I am glad that they do provide us a prayer room.
Shopping in USS is pretty much nothing. But it is a must to grab fridge magnets and few key chains for our parent. I think we do spend a lot on makan and drinks while we are in USS.
If u were travelling in a group make sure korg pesan dekat mana nak meet up in case of tiba2 terhilang tau..Owhh…not to forget, sila lah ambil pictures dgn banyak nya sebab you will eventually meet up with few characters yg best2!! Seriously…I miss USS!! Rindu nak naik Transformer’s ride!!!
Okay..saya sudah ke sana, anda bila lagi??
p/s: Kindly buy tickets with our local agencies sbb if you buy directly with USS, the price is much more expensive.
Thursday, February 2, 2012
Lelaki lagi
*Ehem*
Dah lama I don’t blog about men. So today, I suppose I have to blog about men.
Men are very famous when it comes to ego because some of them do have such a big ego. But I don’t blame them since they are born with it. Sincerely, I am okay with men yg ada such a huge ego. To tell you the truth, I am easily attracted to those male yg mempunyai ego yg besar. They seem not easily intimidated sebab itu I suka. LOL~ Tapi awas, bukan senang ya untuk hidup bersama manusia yg ego. You can be attracted to them but it is advisable for you to stay away from them. (nasihat untuk diri sendiri juga)
Most of men yg commonly seen in KL are professional people. Ya, manusia professional yg bekerja di syarikat gergasi and they are indeed awesome. Why are they awesome?? It is due to their intellectual. Ini lah yg saya suka when a guy use his head instead of his d***. Pardon my language ya.
They are those guys yang saya highly recommended to be a future husband. Why??Because they are stable, financially secure, intelligence and have good sense of humor. What’s more to ask right??Except yes, kindly find a guy yang beriman kepada ALLAH S.W.T. That one is the main criteria.
Personally, I do like that kind a guy but sadly I don’t like the way they judge or define women. It seems that, manusia pandai pun kadangkala terlalu jahil when it comes to judging a good woman.
I use to going out with intellectual guys. Nak wat macam mana, saya memang mudah suka dengan lelaki nerd. I think nerd is sexy. LOL~
One thing I notice, lelaki intellectual are very comfortable with a woman yg can well communicate and can well understand them. Pendek kata, they love to hang outs with worldly woman instead of gadis comel yg pemalu.
Obviously, there are no such things where men are going to treat women equally because the fact is, men love to be much more superior to women. Excuse me, no man are actually going to marry a worldly woman as they much prefer those woman yg hanya mampu berkata, “Ya abang, okay abang, baiklah abang”
However, golongan lelaki professional yg bijak pandai ini, lebih gemar menghabiskan masa bersama wanita yg worldly. Kenapa??Well, because those kind a woman actually understand the inner beast of a man. Ya, men love to be pampered too but not in a way like what their partners did. For any further explanation, I think you better google it or perhaps you can experience it yourself. LOL~
By worldly woman, what I mean is wanita yg pandai bersosial with knowledge. They are not bimbos. They are beautiful ladies with brain. (Lelaki suka gadis pandai tetapi bukan untuk dijadikan sebagai isteri) hee~
Worldly women ini memang banyak di KL. Most of them are gadis-gadis hot stuff actually.
I have this male friend yg so happen work with SHELL. He is a married man with such a beautiful wife. Perhaps his wife is not as beautiful as Lisa Surihani but for me, she is indeed beautiful with her angelic face, very demure and quite pemalu orangnya. If she were to speak with you pun, suara dia slow sangat. By the way, she is working too even though her husband can well afford their family. Nak jadikan cerita, since I know her husband..sometimes I do come across with him after work if I were to hang out with my friends after work. I use to see him with few pretty ladies. I do wonder, does his wife actually know that her husband is mingling around with pretty ladies?? Well, I guess not…because if she were to know, she suppose to be there right??
One day, so happen I terserempak with him..since dah ter bump into each other, I pun take this opportunity to ask him la.. ”How come I always saw you with pretty ladies after work??Does your wife know ke??” Instead of answering me, he gave me a quirk laugh first and then told me, “ Ala…I like to hang outs with those ladies because they were much more understanding than my wife..furthermore, they don’t really bother with my status and I can easily talk everything with them compare to my wife..yela..you pun tahu, my wife know nothing about oil & gas and if I were to talk about general knowledge pun, bukannya dia faham..lagipun, tak salah kot if I Iepak with gadis cantik..I am just enjoying their beauty and their conversation only..no harm maa..” Okay…saya speechless….
See…so much for being a good guy kan??Siapa sangka, he seems to be such a good guy and seorang yg family man. I can’t believe, he can actually simply lepak with other women behind his wife. Sampai hati kan??
Sebab itu I tidak faham….Why must a guy marry a woman yg baik dan sopan tetapi at the same time, a guy much prefer to spend his time with gadis yang pandai bersosial?? Why indeed??
Poor his wife…he is lucky that I don’t even tell his wife about his promiscuous activity after work since I don’t like to mind other people’s business. Tapi deep down, I feel sorry to his wife. Sorry awak, bukan saya tidak mahu beritahu but I don’t like to ruin other people’s life. Biar tuhan tunjuk dekat awak okay.
To lelaki out there,
If you were to find a wife, kindly find a woman who completes you not someone who just to complete your household. Be fair to us woman.
Yang benar,
Si gadis tua
Dah lama I don’t blog about men. So today, I suppose I have to blog about men.
Men are very famous when it comes to ego because some of them do have such a big ego. But I don’t blame them since they are born with it. Sincerely, I am okay with men yg ada such a huge ego. To tell you the truth, I am easily attracted to those male yg mempunyai ego yg besar. They seem not easily intimidated sebab itu I suka. LOL~ Tapi awas, bukan senang ya untuk hidup bersama manusia yg ego. You can be attracted to them but it is advisable for you to stay away from them. (nasihat untuk diri sendiri juga)
Most of men yg commonly seen in KL are professional people. Ya, manusia professional yg bekerja di syarikat gergasi and they are indeed awesome. Why are they awesome?? It is due to their intellectual. Ini lah yg saya suka when a guy use his head instead of his d***. Pardon my language ya.
They are those guys yang saya highly recommended to be a future husband. Why??Because they are stable, financially secure, intelligence and have good sense of humor. What’s more to ask right??Except yes, kindly find a guy yang beriman kepada ALLAH S.W.T. That one is the main criteria.
Personally, I do like that kind a guy but sadly I don’t like the way they judge or define women. It seems that, manusia pandai pun kadangkala terlalu jahil when it comes to judging a good woman.
I use to going out with intellectual guys. Nak wat macam mana, saya memang mudah suka dengan lelaki nerd. I think nerd is sexy. LOL~
One thing I notice, lelaki intellectual are very comfortable with a woman yg can well communicate and can well understand them. Pendek kata, they love to hang outs with worldly woman instead of gadis comel yg pemalu.
Obviously, there are no such things where men are going to treat women equally because the fact is, men love to be much more superior to women. Excuse me, no man are actually going to marry a worldly woman as they much prefer those woman yg hanya mampu berkata, “Ya abang, okay abang, baiklah abang”
However, golongan lelaki professional yg bijak pandai ini, lebih gemar menghabiskan masa bersama wanita yg worldly. Kenapa??Well, because those kind a woman actually understand the inner beast of a man. Ya, men love to be pampered too but not in a way like what their partners did. For any further explanation, I think you better google it or perhaps you can experience it yourself. LOL~
By worldly woman, what I mean is wanita yg pandai bersosial with knowledge. They are not bimbos. They are beautiful ladies with brain. (Lelaki suka gadis pandai tetapi bukan untuk dijadikan sebagai isteri) hee~
Worldly women ini memang banyak di KL. Most of them are gadis-gadis hot stuff actually.
I have this male friend yg so happen work with SHELL. He is a married man with such a beautiful wife. Perhaps his wife is not as beautiful as Lisa Surihani but for me, she is indeed beautiful with her angelic face, very demure and quite pemalu orangnya. If she were to speak with you pun, suara dia slow sangat. By the way, she is working too even though her husband can well afford their family. Nak jadikan cerita, since I know her husband..sometimes I do come across with him after work if I were to hang out with my friends after work. I use to see him with few pretty ladies. I do wonder, does his wife actually know that her husband is mingling around with pretty ladies?? Well, I guess not…because if she were to know, she suppose to be there right??
One day, so happen I terserempak with him..since dah ter bump into each other, I pun take this opportunity to ask him la.. ”How come I always saw you with pretty ladies after work??Does your wife know ke??” Instead of answering me, he gave me a quirk laugh first and then told me, “ Ala…I like to hang outs with those ladies because they were much more understanding than my wife..furthermore, they don’t really bother with my status and I can easily talk everything with them compare to my wife..yela..you pun tahu, my wife know nothing about oil & gas and if I were to talk about general knowledge pun, bukannya dia faham..lagipun, tak salah kot if I Iepak with gadis cantik..I am just enjoying their beauty and their conversation only..no harm maa..” Okay…saya speechless….
See…so much for being a good guy kan??Siapa sangka, he seems to be such a good guy and seorang yg family man. I can’t believe, he can actually simply lepak with other women behind his wife. Sampai hati kan??
Sebab itu I tidak faham….Why must a guy marry a woman yg baik dan sopan tetapi at the same time, a guy much prefer to spend his time with gadis yang pandai bersosial?? Why indeed??
Poor his wife…he is lucky that I don’t even tell his wife about his promiscuous activity after work since I don’t like to mind other people’s business. Tapi deep down, I feel sorry to his wife. Sorry awak, bukan saya tidak mahu beritahu but I don’t like to ruin other people’s life. Biar tuhan tunjuk dekat awak okay.
To lelaki out there,
If you were to find a wife, kindly find a woman who completes you not someone who just to complete your household. Be fair to us woman.
Yang benar,
Si gadis tua
It has been a while
Apparently I can’t stay too long being apart with my blog. It has been nearly 2weeks since I last blog.
I guess I am practically addicted to blogging. Owhh..not only to blog, but I am so into writing perhaps. Maybe I should publish my own biography. You know, sort of like a guilty pleasure to do so. Who knows, in 50 years time if and only if umur itu panjang, I might be alive to read my own history. LOL
I could say, a lot have change in this short of time. People change, clothes change, history has been made and memories have been history.
Me??
I am a different me. Not that I am practically a new person but I guess I am far better than before. What has been change??Biarlah Rahsia….
During my hiatus, I guess what I miss the most is my trip to USS Singapore. I will be blogging about it much later perhaps on any other day as I would like to share few pictures of it.
And owh….AJL obviously belong to Hafiz with his “Awan Nano” song. What a great song to win actually because lagu itu membawa mesej kemanusian instead of typical love songs. I was expected Faizal Tahir to win actually because I just love his energy and his credibility as a singer. Overall, I think people are satisfied with the outcomes. Luckily “Cinta muka buku”, Najwa Latif did not win, if she did win..I guess there is something wrong with AJL committee. Sorry to be blunt.
However, I am quite devastated knowing that Nadal lost to Djokovic in Final Aussie Open. Frankly speaking I am not a big fan of Tennis but apparently I am a big fan of Nadal. I have been quite a follower on his tennis career since last year. I love everything about Nadal. Not only he is physically attractive but I love the way he played tennis. He is indeed a fighter and he won’t give up simply because he is tired. Take a good look at his game with Djokovic and compare it to Murray’s. Obviously, Murray tends to giving up too fast. And owh…I love Nadal’s face expression every time he hits the ball or when he gets point, such an expressive face and it is sexy. LOL~
By the way, my beloved car Blacky caught in an accident. It was purely my own fault since I am the one who drive it and crash onto a divider. Way to go Fatihah!! I am proud to be the one who wreck Blacky’s skirt. Poor Blacky…now Blacky dah less handsome than before. But the saddest part would be the keluar duit part. I was supposed to save some money not to spend it and look what I did. Nasib baik only Blacky’s skirt yg rosak and no other damage..if not, I have to makan pasir for a month.
And yes, my beloved Real Madrid lost to Barcelona with aggregate 3-2 in their race for Copa Del Rey (the king’s cup). It seems that Barca tends to be too strong when they goes against Real Madrid. Sebijik macam Liverpool when they goes against Man Utd. I am so pelik actually when a good club turn out to be so lembiks when they goes against another lembik club but when they goes against a strong club, all of sudden their momentum have change and tiba-tiba jadi kuat and hard to beat. I wonder, what does it takes for Mourinho to actually beat Barca??Please lahh..let Real Madrid win the Chanmpion’s league this season and let Cristiano Ronaldo win the Ballon d Or for this year. I had enough of Messi….LOL
What else happened??
Owhh…I am in the midst of getting a new job. Don’t ask me why I want to quit. Let just say, it is time to move on and perhaps learn new things in new environment. Sometimes, a person needs a wind of change so he/she are able to reborn. Hee~
I guess that is all for now, if I were to remember any particular event I will update it later. I have this short term memory lost problem actually…
Ok bye
I guess I am practically addicted to blogging. Owhh..not only to blog, but I am so into writing perhaps. Maybe I should publish my own biography. You know, sort of like a guilty pleasure to do so. Who knows, in 50 years time if and only if umur itu panjang, I might be alive to read my own history. LOL
I could say, a lot have change in this short of time. People change, clothes change, history has been made and memories have been history.
Me??
I am a different me. Not that I am practically a new person but I guess I am far better than before. What has been change??Biarlah Rahsia….
During my hiatus, I guess what I miss the most is my trip to USS Singapore. I will be blogging about it much later perhaps on any other day as I would like to share few pictures of it.
And owh….AJL obviously belong to Hafiz with his “Awan Nano” song. What a great song to win actually because lagu itu membawa mesej kemanusian instead of typical love songs. I was expected Faizal Tahir to win actually because I just love his energy and his credibility as a singer. Overall, I think people are satisfied with the outcomes. Luckily “Cinta muka buku”, Najwa Latif did not win, if she did win..I guess there is something wrong with AJL committee. Sorry to be blunt.
However, I am quite devastated knowing that Nadal lost to Djokovic in Final Aussie Open. Frankly speaking I am not a big fan of Tennis but apparently I am a big fan of Nadal. I have been quite a follower on his tennis career since last year. I love everything about Nadal. Not only he is physically attractive but I love the way he played tennis. He is indeed a fighter and he won’t give up simply because he is tired. Take a good look at his game with Djokovic and compare it to Murray’s. Obviously, Murray tends to giving up too fast. And owh…I love Nadal’s face expression every time he hits the ball or when he gets point, such an expressive face and it is sexy. LOL~
By the way, my beloved car Blacky caught in an accident. It was purely my own fault since I am the one who drive it and crash onto a divider. Way to go Fatihah!! I am proud to be the one who wreck Blacky’s skirt. Poor Blacky…now Blacky dah less handsome than before. But the saddest part would be the keluar duit part. I was supposed to save some money not to spend it and look what I did. Nasib baik only Blacky’s skirt yg rosak and no other damage..if not, I have to makan pasir for a month.
And yes, my beloved Real Madrid lost to Barcelona with aggregate 3-2 in their race for Copa Del Rey (the king’s cup). It seems that Barca tends to be too strong when they goes against Real Madrid. Sebijik macam Liverpool when they goes against Man Utd. I am so pelik actually when a good club turn out to be so lembiks when they goes against another lembik club but when they goes against a strong club, all of sudden their momentum have change and tiba-tiba jadi kuat and hard to beat. I wonder, what does it takes for Mourinho to actually beat Barca??Please lahh..let Real Madrid win the Chanmpion’s league this season and let Cristiano Ronaldo win the Ballon d Or for this year. I had enough of Messi….LOL
What else happened??
Owhh…I am in the midst of getting a new job. Don’t ask me why I want to quit. Let just say, it is time to move on and perhaps learn new things in new environment. Sometimes, a person needs a wind of change so he/she are able to reborn. Hee~
I guess that is all for now, if I were to remember any particular event I will update it later. I have this short term memory lost problem actually…
Ok bye
Thursday, January 19, 2012
Will be on Hiatus
Finally, I have finished those amazing question from 10days challenge. Now, it is time to get serious and be serious in life. LOL~
Not that I make jokes when it comes to life. In fact, I do think I tend to be too serious when it comes to life. Ya, I believe everyone has a purpose in life. No, am not going to share my purpose of life as it is way too personal to share. A girl got to have a secret or two.
Being friendly and talkative does not mean that you are not serious but perhaps other people might not take you seriously. They will definitely think you as just another girl trying to be smart. Maybe I am not as smart as other woman but I know I can do things most woman can’t do. Being a woman myself, am not trying to prove myself or anything but seriously dude, sometimes being recognized is the best feeling ever rather than being ignored.
I don’t feel good about myself lately. Instead of being positive and stay hopeful, I guess I pretty much in wreck. I am less motivated, demoralized a bit, and tend to be quite moody lately. Blame it on the weather itself because it is freaking hot every single day and I can’t get myself to focus. Focus in what??Focus in life to be exact. Sometimes, I even wonder what am I doing in my life right now??
Yes, I am too tired to live and to be control by other people even though I am the one who crave for other people’s attention. Perhaps, the life itself is tiring of me and wants to get rid of me. Maybe it is time to take a bow and leave the center stage. It is time to take myself out of the spotlight.
2011 is not a good year. Same goes to the previous year where I got my heart broken for the first time. What I cherished the most in 2011 is the fact that I have witness the beauty of love between my girls with their spouses. I love when it comes to LOVE. I know how it felt to be love and in love. What a beautiful feeling and I wish I could feel it again.
Perhaps people might misunderstood, am not tired of life but I merely tired of “the people”. Ya, “the people” does exist around us try to be the head of our life and we did enjoy life according to what “the people” wants us to live. See, how miserable life is when we are not in control of our life. *major sigh*
Perhaps it is time for me to venture other possibilities in life which is I am yet to figure out. LOL~
Need to figure out what is in my head and need to hibernate myself and see where life takes me.. I wonder where…
The most important thing is, I need to reinvent the “new me”. I don’t like certain aspects in my life actually. My attitudes need to be change asap.
Till later I guess, perhaps in few weeks or in few months or I don’t know..Just later I guess
Goodbye.
Not that I make jokes when it comes to life. In fact, I do think I tend to be too serious when it comes to life. Ya, I believe everyone has a purpose in life. No, am not going to share my purpose of life as it is way too personal to share. A girl got to have a secret or two.
Being friendly and talkative does not mean that you are not serious but perhaps other people might not take you seriously. They will definitely think you as just another girl trying to be smart. Maybe I am not as smart as other woman but I know I can do things most woman can’t do. Being a woman myself, am not trying to prove myself or anything but seriously dude, sometimes being recognized is the best feeling ever rather than being ignored.
I don’t feel good about myself lately. Instead of being positive and stay hopeful, I guess I pretty much in wreck. I am less motivated, demoralized a bit, and tend to be quite moody lately. Blame it on the weather itself because it is freaking hot every single day and I can’t get myself to focus. Focus in what??Focus in life to be exact. Sometimes, I even wonder what am I doing in my life right now??
Yes, I am too tired to live and to be control by other people even though I am the one who crave for other people’s attention. Perhaps, the life itself is tiring of me and wants to get rid of me. Maybe it is time to take a bow and leave the center stage. It is time to take myself out of the spotlight.
2011 is not a good year. Same goes to the previous year where I got my heart broken for the first time. What I cherished the most in 2011 is the fact that I have witness the beauty of love between my girls with their spouses. I love when it comes to LOVE. I know how it felt to be love and in love. What a beautiful feeling and I wish I could feel it again.
Perhaps people might misunderstood, am not tired of life but I merely tired of “the people”. Ya, “the people” does exist around us try to be the head of our life and we did enjoy life according to what “the people” wants us to live. See, how miserable life is when we are not in control of our life. *major sigh*
Perhaps it is time for me to venture other possibilities in life which is I am yet to figure out. LOL~
Need to figure out what is in my head and need to hibernate myself and see where life takes me.. I wonder where…
The most important thing is, I need to reinvent the “new me”. I don’t like certain aspects in my life actually. My attitudes need to be change asap.
Till later I guess, perhaps in few weeks or in few months or I don’t know..Just later I guess
Goodbye.
10 Days Challenge - Day 10
Late post
Day 10 – The best thing that has ever happened to you.
The best thing is yet to come but Alhamdulillah I cherished my life. Tak kisah lah bad or good I believe ada hikmah di sebalik kejadian. Ya, need to keep positive vibes in my life.
So far, the best thing ever that has happened to me is to be able to work in oil & gas.
Sincerely speaking, it has been a dream to actually work in this field. I use to envy those people yg got the opportunity to work in oil & gas. I am one of those people yg have been rejected by PETRONAS and SHELL okay. Kecewa???Well, I am past that.
Tapi itulah, rezeki manusia kan, no one knows….finally, I got this opportunity to work in oil & gas.
Feeling??
More than happy I would say. I don’t mind being busy or to work more than office hour or to work during weekend because I love what I do and I love to be in this field. And I hope I can stay long in this business despite I am pretty busy right now to build my own empire. *chewahh*
Finally, I am able to finish this 10days challenge..never thought I will actually but I am glad I did.
Ok bye.
Day 10 – The best thing that has ever happened to you.
The best thing is yet to come but Alhamdulillah I cherished my life. Tak kisah lah bad or good I believe ada hikmah di sebalik kejadian. Ya, need to keep positive vibes in my life.
So far, the best thing ever that has happened to me is to be able to work in oil & gas.
Sincerely speaking, it has been a dream to actually work in this field. I use to envy those people yg got the opportunity to work in oil & gas. I am one of those people yg have been rejected by PETRONAS and SHELL okay. Kecewa???Well, I am past that.
Tapi itulah, rezeki manusia kan, no one knows….finally, I got this opportunity to work in oil & gas.
Feeling??
More than happy I would say. I don’t mind being busy or to work more than office hour or to work during weekend because I love what I do and I love to be in this field. And I hope I can stay long in this business despite I am pretty busy right now to build my own empire. *chewahh*
Finally, I am able to finish this 10days challenge..never thought I will actually but I am glad I did.
Ok bye.
Tuesday, January 17, 2012
Last weekend
- Celebrate birthday baby girl
- Outing with the "Gedz"
-we are not ready yet-
-Okay dah ready except Cyrus-
-Picture credit to Eika's Hubby and he called me "Tihah bulu-bulu" , thanks Rico!!-
p/s: I were forced to wear that fur coat...LOL~
10 Days Challenge - Day 9
Day 9 – What you were like as a child
I am still a child even though I am 26years old now.
But if we were to turn back time say like 20years back…well I would say I use to be not so adventurous type of girl.
I am this typical girly girl. I love to play Barbie dolls, love LEGO, love to swim, love to be pretty, play with my mum’s make up, hate bicycle, hate to run and senang cakap I am this indoor child.
Ya, saya suka any indoor activities yg kurang mengeluarkan peluh.
Owhh..lupa..when I was a child, my mum has this strict rule where we cannot play with other kids unless he/she is family. So, yes..as a child..I am a very secluded person and my parent is over protective until now..LOL~
Ok bye~
I am still a child even though I am 26years old now.
But if we were to turn back time say like 20years back…well I would say I use to be not so adventurous type of girl.
I am this typical girly girl. I love to play Barbie dolls, love LEGO, love to swim, love to be pretty, play with my mum’s make up, hate bicycle, hate to run and senang cakap I am this indoor child.
Ya, saya suka any indoor activities yg kurang mengeluarkan peluh.
Owhh..lupa..when I was a child, my mum has this strict rule where we cannot play with other kids unless he/she is family. So, yes..as a child..I am a very secluded person and my parent is over protective until now..LOL~
Ok bye~
Monday, January 16, 2012
10 Days Challenge - Day 8
Day 8 – Tell about an adventure you have had.
An adventure I have had in my entire life so far would be my hiking trip to Gunung Rabong in Kelantan.
I would say it is the most adventurous activity I have ever done in my life. Frankly speaking, I can’t actually see myself to be involved in this kind of activity since I am an indoor person. I love to play chess or piano but outdoor activity is so not me. But…yes…I have been a mountain junkie since I joined SRC UTM (Student Recreation Club).
This is my first mountain experience where both of my shoes rosak. This is the very first time in my life I have learned on how to cook in a jungle using mestin. The track itself is nauzubillah because we have gone all the way through jungle and we were quite afraid if we were accidently terjumpa any jungle creatures yg ganas. The back pack itself is super heavy and I have to carry it by myself all the way okay!!
But I am happy to say, I have learn a lot from this trip, on how to survive in a jungle to be precise. I have learned about patience since I am the most impatience person. Tapi saya masih lagi seorang yang kurang sabar..LOL~
Owh..by the way…I learned on how to play poker during this trip as well, thanks to Bobby & Ijan. I dah hebat okay..even to play black jack pun I memang super star..LOL~
Mau lawan??JOM!!
Okay bye!
An adventure I have had in my entire life so far would be my hiking trip to Gunung Rabong in Kelantan.
I would say it is the most adventurous activity I have ever done in my life. Frankly speaking, I can’t actually see myself to be involved in this kind of activity since I am an indoor person. I love to play chess or piano but outdoor activity is so not me. But…yes…I have been a mountain junkie since I joined SRC UTM (Student Recreation Club).
This is my first mountain experience where both of my shoes rosak. This is the very first time in my life I have learned on how to cook in a jungle using mestin. The track itself is nauzubillah because we have gone all the way through jungle and we were quite afraid if we were accidently terjumpa any jungle creatures yg ganas. The back pack itself is super heavy and I have to carry it by myself all the way okay!!
But I am happy to say, I have learn a lot from this trip, on how to survive in a jungle to be precise. I have learned about patience since I am the most impatience person. Tapi saya masih lagi seorang yang kurang sabar..LOL~
Owh..by the way…I learned on how to play poker during this trip as well, thanks to Bobby & Ijan. I dah hebat okay..even to play black jack pun I memang super star..LOL~
Mau lawan??JOM!!
Okay bye!
10 Days Challenge - Day 7
Late post
Day 7 – Have you told anyone your deepest secret, if so what was their reaction.
*ehem*
My deepest secret….
Ya, I have told it to someone. And she takes it well I guess. Perhaps it is due to our understanding on regards this matter. And a secret shall remain a secret until it proven otherwise.
Ok bye
Day 7 – Have you told anyone your deepest secret, if so what was their reaction.
*ehem*
My deepest secret….
Ya, I have told it to someone. And she takes it well I guess. Perhaps it is due to our understanding on regards this matter. And a secret shall remain a secret until it proven otherwise.
Ok bye
10 Days Challenge - Day 6
Late post
Day 6 – Where have you traveled
I haven’t had the opportunity to be around the world yet. One day perhaps, jika dipanjangkan umur.
But I am bless indeed to be able to visit the whole Malaysia. Ya, I am proud to say, saya dah sampai ke semua negeri di Malaysia including Wilayah Persekutuan Labuan. Oleh itu, to those yg suka sangat travel to oversea make sure anda sudah khatam negeri-negeri di Malaysia terlebih dahulu ya..*wink*
In my 26 years of life, I have been to Indonesia, Singapore, Vietnam, Bahrain, and Arab Saudi (Makkah to be exact)
My next trip is yet to be revealed. Need to earn more money first before I start to travel.
Ok bye
Day 6 – Where have you traveled
I haven’t had the opportunity to be around the world yet. One day perhaps, jika dipanjangkan umur.
But I am bless indeed to be able to visit the whole Malaysia. Ya, I am proud to say, saya dah sampai ke semua negeri di Malaysia including Wilayah Persekutuan Labuan. Oleh itu, to those yg suka sangat travel to oversea make sure anda sudah khatam negeri-negeri di Malaysia terlebih dahulu ya..*wink*
In my 26 years of life, I have been to Indonesia, Singapore, Vietnam, Bahrain, and Arab Saudi (Makkah to be exact)
My next trip is yet to be revealed. Need to earn more money first before I start to travel.
Ok bye
Friday, January 13, 2012
10 Days Challenge - Day 5
Day 5 - A random funny story
It is funny when I don't remember anything funny to tell
Ok Bye~
Lucky
This past few weeks has been rough for us. Let just say, we are absolutely not okay and lack of motivation to work. By us what I meant is me and my colleagues.
When something bad occurred, all you can think of is how unlucky we are right??
Ya, me too..I feel so unlucky and rasa diri ini loser.
Ya,we always see problems as a punishment to ourself kan. Bila ada problem, kita mesti rasa yg this is a punishment to all of our sins. Saya pun selalu berfikiran begitu.
But, we are wrong…sebab bila dugaan datang, masalah menimpa..it is not a punishment. It is a sign yg tuhan itu sayangkan kita. Kenapa??
Sebab dugaan itu mendekatkan kita dengan tuhan.
Sebab manusia mudah lupa tuhan bila dia senang.
*senyap*
Kadangkala, saya sering lupa..no matter how hard life hits me, I am not alone in this world. Sebab saya masih ada keluarga yg always be there for me.
Bila rasa susah, I still have my parent to comfort me. Bila rasa stress, my family can make me happy, Bila rasa sedih, my family can take those tears away…
But, what about other people?? We have to remember, not all people lucky like me or like manusia lain out there yg masih boleh bergantung harap with their family.
Ya, the reality itself hits me…selfish nya diri ini yg selalu ingat dia seorang sahaja yg susah…
Oleh itu, stop whining yourself ya diri sendiri, look at other people out there..manusia may not show their emotion on their faces, but dalam hati siapa yg tahu.
Belajar bersyukur dan rasa bertuah kerana anda tidak keseorangan dalam dunia ini~
Happy Friday the 13th
When something bad occurred, all you can think of is how unlucky we are right??
Ya, me too..I feel so unlucky and rasa diri ini loser.
Ya,we always see problems as a punishment to ourself kan. Bila ada problem, kita mesti rasa yg this is a punishment to all of our sins. Saya pun selalu berfikiran begitu.
But, we are wrong…sebab bila dugaan datang, masalah menimpa..it is not a punishment. It is a sign yg tuhan itu sayangkan kita. Kenapa??
Sebab dugaan itu mendekatkan kita dengan tuhan.
Sebab manusia mudah lupa tuhan bila dia senang.
*senyap*
Kadangkala, saya sering lupa..no matter how hard life hits me, I am not alone in this world. Sebab saya masih ada keluarga yg always be there for me.
Bila rasa susah, I still have my parent to comfort me. Bila rasa stress, my family can make me happy, Bila rasa sedih, my family can take those tears away…
But, what about other people?? We have to remember, not all people lucky like me or like manusia lain out there yg masih boleh bergantung harap with their family.
Ya, the reality itself hits me…selfish nya diri ini yg selalu ingat dia seorang sahaja yg susah…
Oleh itu, stop whining yourself ya diri sendiri, look at other people out there..manusia may not show their emotion on their faces, but dalam hati siapa yg tahu.
Belajar bersyukur dan rasa bertuah kerana anda tidak keseorangan dalam dunia ini~
Happy Friday the 13th
Thursday, January 12, 2012
me & tudung bawal
I think i look like org tua in tudung bawal..kan?? susah ok wearing tudung bawal..that is why i prefer simple shawl yg murah itu...cuba tgk me wearing bawal...so makcik!!!! fine...
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