Lelaki lagi

*Ehem*

Dah lama I don’t blog about men. So today, I suppose I have to blog about men.

Men are very famous when it comes to ego because some of them do have such a big ego. But I don’t blame them since they are born with it. Sincerely, I am okay with men yg ada such a huge ego. To tell you the truth, I am easily attracted to those male yg mempunyai ego yg besar. They seem not easily intimidated sebab itu I suka. LOL~ Tapi awas, bukan senang ya untuk hidup bersama manusia yg ego. You can be attracted to them but it is advisable for you to stay away from them. (nasihat untuk diri sendiri juga)

Most of men yg commonly seen in KL are professional people. Ya, manusia professional yg bekerja di syarikat gergasi and they are indeed awesome. Why are they awesome?? It is due to their intellectual. Ini lah yg saya suka when a guy use his head instead of his d***. Pardon my language ya.

They are those guys yang saya highly recommended to be a future husband. Why??Because they are stable, financially secure, intelligence and have good sense of humor. What’s more to ask right??Except yes, kindly find a guy yang beriman kepada ALLAH S.W.T. That one is the main criteria.

Personally, I do like that kind a guy but sadly I don’t like the way they judge or define women. It seems that, manusia pandai pun kadangkala terlalu jahil when it comes to judging a good woman.

I use to going out with intellectual guys. Nak wat macam mana, saya memang mudah suka dengan lelaki nerd. I think nerd is sexy. LOL~

One thing I notice, lelaki intellectual are very comfortable with a woman yg can well communicate and can well understand them. Pendek kata, they love to hang outs with worldly woman instead of gadis comel yg pemalu.

Obviously, there are no such things where men are going to treat women equally because the fact is, men love to be much more superior to women. Excuse me, no man are actually going to marry a worldly woman as they much prefer those woman yg hanya mampu berkata, “Ya abang, okay abang, baiklah abang”

However, golongan lelaki professional yg bijak pandai ini, lebih gemar menghabiskan masa bersama wanita yg worldly. Kenapa??Well, because those kind a woman actually understand the inner beast of a man. Ya, men love to be pampered too but not in a way like what their partners did. For any further explanation, I think you better google it or perhaps you can experience it yourself. LOL~

By worldly woman, what I mean is wanita yg pandai bersosial with knowledge. They are not bimbos. They are beautiful ladies with brain. (Lelaki suka gadis pandai tetapi bukan untuk dijadikan sebagai isteri) hee~

Worldly women ini memang banyak di KL. Most of them are gadis-gadis hot stuff actually.

I have this male friend yg so happen work with SHELL. He is a married man with such a beautiful wife. Perhaps his wife is not as beautiful as Lisa Surihani but for me, she is indeed beautiful with her angelic face, very demure and quite pemalu orangnya. If she were to speak with you pun, suara dia slow sangat. By the way, she is working too even though her husband can well afford their family. Nak jadikan cerita, since I know her husband..sometimes I do come across with him after work if I were to hang out with my friends after work. I use to see him with few pretty ladies. I do wonder, does his wife actually know that her husband is mingling around with pretty ladies?? Well, I guess not…because if she were to know, she suppose to be there right??

One day, so happen I terserempak with him..since dah ter bump into each other, I pun take this opportunity to ask him la.. ”How come I always saw you with pretty ladies after work??Does your wife know ke??” Instead of answering me, he gave me a quirk laugh first and then told me, “ Ala…I like to hang outs with those ladies because they were much more understanding than my wife..furthermore, they don’t really bother with my status and I can easily talk everything with them compare to my wife..yela..you pun tahu, my wife know nothing about oil & gas and if I were to talk about general knowledge pun, bukannya dia faham..lagipun, tak salah kot if I Iepak with gadis cantik..I am just enjoying their beauty and their conversation only..no harm maa..” Okay…saya speechless….

See…so much for being a good guy kan??Siapa sangka, he seems to be such a good guy and seorang yg family man. I can’t believe, he can actually simply lepak with other women behind his wife. Sampai hati kan??

Sebab itu I tidak faham….Why must a guy marry a woman yg baik dan sopan tetapi at the same time, a guy much prefer to spend his time with gadis yang pandai bersosial?? Why indeed??

Poor his wife…he is lucky that I don’t even tell his wife about his promiscuous activity after work since I don’t like to mind other people’s business. Tapi deep down, I feel sorry to his wife. Sorry awak, bukan saya tidak mahu beritahu but I don’t like to ruin other people’s life. Biar tuhan tunjuk dekat awak okay.

To lelaki out there,
If you were to find a wife, kindly find a woman who completes you not someone who just to complete your household. Be fair to us woman.

Yang benar,

Si gadis tua