Wahai Lelaki

Sometimes I do envy those people who don’t have to struggle their self to have or to find the love of their life. The fact is, I don’t even know what the love of my life is or perhaps who is the love of my life. I have been in love but apparently he is not the love of my life. He is just a passerby in my journey of life.

But it makes me sad to see or acknowledge how men nowadays so callously play the game of love. Sometimes I do think they don’t even bother on what love is. Men nowadays are super selfish.

I have been approached by bf org, tunang org, suami org…and for what?? For me to actually be there for them when they are bored with their partners??Is that why those unavailable men seek happiness? In the arm of other women??waa….bagus kan..lelaki are indeed lucky, you guys don’t have to do much to have a woman lay on your feet. It is not that hard pun to make a woman fall for you….sweet talk…and sweet talk some more and a bit of sweet talk lagi…and then surely that woman will die for you.

Ya, women are easy conquest. Man does not have to be as gorgeous as Aaron Aziz to get a woman. It is true you know...Because women nowadays don’t really bother with looks when you have other things to offer. Other thing does not mean money even though it is true that some women do married sebab duit. But one should realize that money is not everything that a woman need, woman need security, faithfulness, responsibility, and the most important one is LOVE which most of men are lack of. I think men are confused when it comes to LOVE or LUST.

I am having a major piss off with those guys yg rasa diri mereka lelaki terhangat di pasaran. You know those type a guy yg already have someone else in their life, someone else yg willing to die for them but yet you guys keep on looking for other women. APAKAH??

Kindly tell me, what is wrong with your partners that make you think that you should have the liberty to fooling around with other women? Which part of “not single” yg you guys don’t understand?? Why do you guys have to flirt around even knowing that you are not available?? Kenapa perlu tamak??

Okay fine, am not going argue on what our AL QURAN taught us. A man can have more than a wife in Islam. Personally, I am not against “bermadu” concept. I agree, nowadays there are lots of women compare to men so one should be able to share their husband. To tell you the truth, if I were to be married with a married man, I would sincerely accept it…kenapa??I believe in jodoh pertemuan dan ajal. If tuhan dah tentukan I have to share a husband, so be it. Perhaps I am pasrah not redha, but hey…life goes on…one should accept his or her destiny. Tapi kalau boleh saya pun tidak mahu berkongsi suami..bukan tamak but I am not willing to hurt other woman feeling by marrying her husband. I have feeling too, I know how it felt to feel threaten and to be jealous. Like I said before, penyakit jealous ini boleh membawa maut. I do pray I won’t have to hurt other woman feeling….Amin~

To men out there, if you are in a relationship, are engaged, and married…kindly think more than twice before you guys go flirt around/approach other women. Our heart is too fragile, a simple gesture from men can always be misinterpreted by us woman. We are simply like that. When a man says “Hi”, our brain think that you are into us even though you only meant it for a simple “Hi”. Kindly clarify things to a woman, don’t be nice to her if you don’t want to marry her. Kindly stay away from us. Don’t play with a woman heart. I am begging you wahai lelaki out there…

p/s: Orang tamak selalu rugi.


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